我的特点 No. 1

想用最大这个词,但最近脑袋有点胀,姑且省了,免得出错。

我的比较严重的一个特点应该是,总喜欢说些别人听不太懂的话,但内心里却又总是那么地希望别人能懂。其实我也明白,这个世界上除了自己本来就没有人有义务来理解你说的废话,苦苦追求真是何必?

在我的体内,总存在对立的二体。它们总在互相厮打。它们想让我发疯。我却暗地里偷笑,我这个人最大的特点(Fuck 最大)就是,哦,不是特点,是特长,那就是别人把我逼死,我也会说,别人也是被逼无奈。

这次你听懂了吗?

我想写个系列。

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我的特点 No. 1

Additional NHibernate links

The classic articles about NHibernate, at least for me, are the Server Side .Net ones, here and here, by Justin Gehtland.

There are two example applications for NHibernate: This one by Scott Bellware and this by Paul Wilson. While Cuyahoga is using NHibernate (and my site run on Cuyahoga), I wouldn’t recommend it to a beginner, it is definitely a very advance application.

Benjamin has a lot to say about NHibernate. And Nikola has a very nice introductory post on it here.

Additional NHibernate links

Very cool NHibernate practice series

NHibernate is cool, but it is so hard for many people to find out some useful enough real practical tutorials or guides.

Ben Scheirman had a very cool article series about NHibernate together with Domain-Driven Design (DDD). From this series you can get a practical architecture process experience and finally get a complete NHibernate based DDD development experience. Following are the links:

  1. A Journey with NHibernate – Part 1
  2. A Journey With NHibernate – Part 2
  3. A Journey With NHibernate (and DDD) – Part 3
  4. A Journey with Domain Driven Design (and NHibernate) – Part 4
  5. A Journey with Domain Driven Design (and NHibernate) – Part 5
  6. A Journey with Domain Driven Design (and NHibernate) – Part 6
Very cool NHibernate practice series

别不把自己当回事,但更别把自己太当回事

听起来像中庸之道,不过细想起来的确是大道理。

有些朋友自信不够,喜欢妄自菲薄,这时,我就要和他说,别不把自己当回事。总不把自己当回事不是好事,现代社会竞争很激烈,总想逃避,总想找到世外桃源是不现实的。事实也证明,真正能享受到世外桃源的,也大部分都是挺把自己当回事,艰苦奋斗出来的。加油!

然而有些朋友却正相反,他们内心膨胀得很,明明也就那样,但是非得把自己想得很是那么一回事,谈话、做事一概太像那么一回事。以为装相别人感觉不出,得意得很。事实上呢?有一句话很合适这些人,装相总归是装相。谦虚使人进步,低调点,多自省点对他们有好处。对他们来说,最好别太把自己毫无原则的太当一回事。不然,跟头会摔大的。

别不把自己当回事,但更别把自己太当回事